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"We don’t inherit Anxiety Disorders (Social Anxiety,Fear of Flying, Panic Attacks etc.). What we do inherit is a General Personality Type that predisposes some to be overly anxious and others to have a degree of protection against developing Anxiety Disorder. Biologically- Short form of Chromosome 17 v Long Form of Chromosome 17"
It’s not what happens to you, but how you react to it that matters.(Epictetus 55 AD)